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I hope this just does not get ugly.

by Mama in the Middle

I alright I will admit it. In the past I wanted my garage cleaned out or my lawn cut and I did not ask too many questions.

I am a Busy Mama with a busy family. The time we get to spend alone without pagers or cell phones is precious. So I do not want my husband cutting grass when we could be barbequeing or enjoying our little ones. It's selfish. In the past, I just did not ask to many questions. I guess we are a part of the problem. My motivation has always been to get the job done right, quickly and cheaply. I have had friends who only want American labor only to be stuck with a badly cut lawn, weeds or no shows.

After seeing the protests, I got mad. Seeing folks demand right that they do not have makes me mad. I am sure that it the economy where any these people are from, Canada, Sweden, Hati was as good as America they could find Busy or (lazy homeowners) like myself. If there economies were as good as the US, I do not think that 90% of the aliens would be here and these demonstrations would definitely not be occuring. My fear is that these demonstrations are going to get ugly. I am not ready for cnn showing wall to wall riots in our cities.

I have no solution to the problem. It seems a daunting task to send them all back, but it also seems to be stirring intense dissatisfaction within the immigrant communities for them to stay. I simply do not know what should be done. If believe if it get violent, that we should ship everyone out, including the Americans who are facilitating violence.

I pray that the situation stays peaceful. I know that from now on I will ask more questions and not given in to the appeal of cheap dependable labor.

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FINANCES IN REVIEW - POCKETBOOK DRAMA

Starting a Budget

by Fiasco Mama

The best approach to budgeting is to keep the process as simple possible.

1. KEEP IT SIMPLE (AT FIRST) The best way to get started is to put together a very basic list of your monthly income (i.e. your paycheck) and expenses. Just give it your best guess. Stick to listing things you can easily identify: rent, car payment, insurance, utilities (you get the picture). As time goes by you can add more detail.

2. DETERMINE YOUR MONTHLY INCOME (after tax how much can you spend) To be effective, you must determine how much you make each month. This is not as straightforward as it seems. If you get paid once a month, it's easy -- just use the amount from the check. If you get paid on a different schedule use the chart below:

Monthly Salary Calculation Payment Interval Multiply By Divide By each week 52 12 every 2 weeks 26 12 twice a month 24 12 every 3 weeks 17.34 12 If you have other sources of income other than your paycheck that you use for expenses each month (i.e. interest income, alimony, child support, other), you will want to include these sources as well. You can use the chart above to determine the monthly income from these sources as well.

3. EXPENSES This will be the difficult part. It will be more difficult than income sources because you will have many more expenses than incomes (if you do have more sources of income, than you probably have enough money to hire your own personal accountant and shouldn't be wasting your time with my site). You will also most likely have hidden expenses or expenses you currently do not realize exist. Group these expenses into categories as best you can -- you can always re-categorize later. Just prepare your list for now, don't worry about estimating the amount spent each month.

4. RECORDING REVENUES AND EXPENSES IN PERIOD INCURRED You need to select your time period. I suggest selecting a month (I have been referring to the month time period throughout this site). You need to match all your revenues for one month against all your expenses. Don't record an expense to the proper month based on in which month you paid the bill, but rather record the expense in the month that reflects when the expense was incurred. Here's an example of what I am talking about. Let's say you get your electric bill on the 23rd of each month and it is not due until the 3rd of the following month. Let's also say in June you pay the bill early (on the 23rd), but the July bill (which comes on July 23) you don't pay until August 3. If you recorded your expense based on the date paid, you would not have any electricity expense recorded in July (since the June bill was paid on June 23 and recorded in June, and the July paid was paid August 3 and recorded with August expenses). By matching revenues and expense to the period in which they occurred, you will be able to determine if your monthly expenses exceed your monthly income.

5. ESTABLISH ESTIMATES FOR MONTHLY EXPENSES Make your best guess for some those items that are not reoccurring. It may take you a couple of months to get good at estimating the more difficult expense categories. If you find you have a large amount of money in any one category, consider breaking it down into more detail. Utilities is a good example. You may want to break it down into: (1) Electricity, (2) Gas, and (3) Water/Sewer.

6. TRACKING ACTUAL EXPENSES You need to keep track of your actual expenses incurred during the month and group them into these categories. It will be easy for things like rent, phone (stuff you get a bill for and write one check). The tough part will be those cash expenses (lunches, sodas, beers after work, movies, etc.). If you don't have a memory like a steel trap, carry a small pocket size note book with you and write them down as they are incurred. Or if you find that to be a big pain, you can take the easy, but much less accurate, way out and each time you withdraw cash, guess which categories these cash expenses will fit into and record them. You can always adjust them later. This way, you will at least have something recorded and are less likely to forget that $5 purchase of lottery tickets the other night.

Source: PersonalBudgeting.com